fail timing

So, I wrote about the fact that on the 20th (today) that I had an interview for a nice job in Maitland. Well, that's just it ... it is HAD. Yesterday around 6pm I got an e-mail and phone call that the company I was going to go interview at had filled their last position, and were canceling all the rest of the interviews.

The person that called me was genuinely sorry that it had happened, and told me to keep in contact with the person that had originally contacted me. See, I apparently was 'hired' by one company that's a staff leasing agency ... which to me isn't a bad thing at this point ... this to me means that they'll be actually trying to help me get a job. I'm not officially on the books until I get a job at wherever they have contacts at.

Either way, it sucks royally, just when I thought I'd be getting ahead in the world, things come tumbling down again .. but perhaps it won't be so bad now that at least I have someone working with me to help me back up.

Relationship wise, things have smoothed out for us, but not in the ideal way as far as some may be concerned. But to us, it's just fine. Basically what this means to us is that we're not getting a divorce, nor will we. Both of us think it's pretty stupid that the courts would more than likely make me pay some form of child support, even though she wouldn't want it. So, we're staying married, but have evolved the relationship to allow for freedom of other relationships. We've got certain stipulations of course for any future relationship that either of us get into. Basically whomever we may get involved with have to understand what is going on, and must get along with everyone.

So, I suppose this means that I'm looking for a nice girl now that would understand that we'd not be getting married in the future, understands the situation, knows that I am a gamer (would be cool if she was too ^^), and of course, the fact that there are children involved. Victoria and I have discussed of course that once I get a job and we're getting money set back, that we'd be investing in getting rid of this breaking down house, and getting a new one that'd have enough bedrooms to house 4 adults, and 3 kids. Basically either 4 or 5 bedrooms. Of course, any partners that come into play in the future, we'd like the help that could be provided to help pay for things.

Strangeness will ensue I'm sure as once I post this it will trickle down through the family. But again, I urge those that read this or relay it to family that doesn't actually read the blog, to make sure they read it themselves. And to those that aren't sure how this'll affect things with the family, everything should stay the same. As stated, we're staying married, it's just that the love isn't there anymore between us...so we'll be looking for loving partners that would understand everything.